My Rules

Safety and Screening

For my safety, my location will be shared with another party at all times and I will check in before and after the session with them to ensure I am always ok. This is standard policy for my protection. Screening is non-negotiable so please be prepared to provide screening info before contacting me.

Tribute

Please have your offering ready upon arrival in an unsealed envelope. It is expected you have reviewed the website and know the amount. Please do not hand me the offering, but leave it on a table in plain sight. Tips are not expected but always appreciated!

Deposit

To ensure that I am offering you my best I only accept a small client base and will never double book. To ensure your commitment to our time, I require a $100 deposit which goes towards the total.

Hygiene 

I take pride in my hygiene and presentation and you should too. Please be showered, wash your hands and have fresh oral hygiene. If you come to me, you may shower. Please use the available mouth wash. 

Running Late

If you are running late notify me ASAP. Our time will end as scheduled unless otherwise negotiated. The full amount will be expected for the time booked. Please do your best to accommodate for traffic and finding my location if you visit me.

Cancellations

If you need to cancel notify me as soon as you can. Cancellations the day of our session will incur a 50% cancellation fee. 

Privacy

I will always respect your privacy. Please also respect mine. If we should we see each other outside of our scheduled time, I will not acknowledge our acquaintance. I expect the same courtesy.

Refunds

My rates are for my time and companionship only. No refunds.

Etiquette

You may address Me as Madame, Madame J or Madame Jasper during our session, unless the scene calls for a different title, in which case I will tell you.

I am the only dominant in this scene. I do not switch and I have zero tolerance for disobedience or disrespect towards Myself.

It is your responsibility to communicate your desires, goals and limits at all times. Trust goes both ways. I will frequently check in, particularly with new clients, but ultimately it is up to you to communicate your needs.

If your request involves any items I do not currently own, it is your responsibility to provide them.

Bad Behavior

Rude, aggressive or inebriated clients will be asked to leave with out refund.

My rules are non-negotiable. 

Preparing for Your Session


Upon arrival, it is expected that you will have read through my website and taken the time to understand how to meet my standards for the best experience.

You should be clean, polite and eager to engage and learn my style as a Dominant. Every Domme is unique and different and I expect to be treated that way. Respect and curiosity are traits I value in a client. 

For first time clients, there will be a thorough review and check in before to ensure you are prepared. During that time please ask any questions you may have. I would rather you ask than assume anything.

Hygiene is important to me and I expect yours to be excellent. Please ensure your teeth are brushed, you smell clean and fresh and you have washed internally if necessary. I have a shower you may use before we begin if needed.

I curate each session with deep care for your needs, wants and safety. Before the session, I thoroughly review your questionnaire to craft an experience that blends your hopes and desires with my expertise as a Domme. While I place your wants in high priority, it is best to relinquish expectations and trust in my intuition and skill. When our time together has started, allow yourself to enjoy the journey and we will both be pleased.

I adore the strange and unusual, so any kinks or perversions shared with me will be met with the utmost reverence and discretion. If you have a specific desire you are dreaming about, please ask! I assure you nothing is too dark or strange for my consideration provided it does not fall under what is listed as off-limits for me. If it is not something I am skilled in I will let you know. Honesty and trust are vital to our encounter and something I will never violate.

Although tokens of appreciation and gratuities aren't required, they do highlight your commitment. Anything off my Throne account is always appreciated, but I also enjoy tips, roses, and gift cards. 

Communication


Before Session

Effective communication before our meeting ensures an optimal experience together.   I will require that you fill out a questionnaire before our session. Please answer all questions as thoroughly as possible. 

I may ask a few clarifying questions if I feel the need to. In turn, I encourage you to ask questions as well. However, please be mindful of My time and make sure that you are not asking anything that can be answered via My website. 

During session

For new clients, I tend to start slow to gauge your limits. I adore an expressive client. Please feel free to communicate with Me at any given momet what is working for you and if something is not. I love hearing your moans, screams, sighs and vocalizations so please don’t hold back!

After Session

I want to hear how the experience was for you and welcome your insights. After the session, please email 1-3 paragraphs about our time together including any challenges, highlights or other musings you had either during or after.